The
area of theory that is related to my investigation is that people change the
way that they speak depending on the context and who they are speaking to.
A Women’s
magazine
Have
you ever thought that people, such as your partners, treat and speak to you
differently compared to other people such as their friends? Well this could
actually be true. It is said that people,
including you, change the way they talk depending on who you are speaking to.
When you think about it, it makes sense; you wouldn’t speak to the Queen the
same as you speak to your sister that just wouldn’t be right would it? You would naturally change the tone and
politeness of what you are saying. This
is just so natural to us we just don’t notice it anymore. However there are
also times when you change language to stand out. We all have been through that important
interview, where you want to stand out so you try to say something smart to
stand out. Whether it works is another issue but you tried. This again shows we
change the way we speak.
A
scientific magazine for well-educated non English- specialists over 20
How
can the language we use in day to day life, influence the way in which we speak
to certain people. Theorists debate elements of language, just as scientists
debate topics such as how the Earth was created. Why we use certain language depending on who
the audience is said to be because we want the person who we are speaking to,
to understand and agree with what we say. It makes the audience feel like you
are similar to them, epically if you use the same body language. It has become
so natural to our brain to change the language we use, we don’t even realise
that we do this.
Another
format of your choice - hand-out for parents
Many of us have teenagers and
children that speak to us in a way in which we don’t understand or in which we
don’t agree with. Well there may be a way of creating a better conversation and
relationship with our children. There
has been research done that suggests that if you speak or present yourself in a
similar way to who you are speaking to, it helps create a good relationship.
Don’t worry, I’m not suggesting you use a lot of slang and wear clothes that
you wouldn’t wear. There are things you
can do to help you adapt the way you speak to them. Research suggests that by
simply speaking about common interests, using similar body language and using a
similar tone with your voice, can give the impression that you are someone
similar to them who they can speak to.
A really good example of how information is selected and transformed for different audiences. Try and be really sensitive to your audience(s). "It may not have worked" works but "you tried" is probably meant to mean 'it is something you did' but comes across as meaning 'you couldn't do it' and sounds patronising. Everyone needs to be careful of that as you will lose your audience. They need to feel good about themselves as they read.
ReplyDelete